Why am I surrounded by Jerks?!? Social currency

  "I am surrounded by people telling me I don't matter- they can't all be wrong!" We have talked in the past about the importance of Tribe and how the people we surround ourselves with can make us or break us, so to speak. (See The 5 Things We Need to Be Well- The STAMP … Continue reading Why am I surrounded by Jerks?!? Social currency

How to succeed at the Game of Life

We often hear people talk about the "Game of Life".  In this game of life, as humans we ALWAYS only have two goals, SAFETY and SIGNIFICANCE. Safety means: Emotionally, we feel our needs are equal to other people's needs and feel comfortable asking for them to be met. Physically, we are free from violence and intimidation, … Continue reading How to succeed at the Game of Life

How can I help myself succeed?

The truth is, although it is not impossible to change our lives alone, it is significantly less likely to be successful and is far more likely to be associated with suffering when we try to do it on our own. You see, because we are such an inherently social species, our success or failure is … Continue reading How can I help myself succeed?