Why Is Change So Hard? Hand On The Stove Analogy

In our new Youtube video, understand why we don't change even though we know better. The Hand On The Stove analogy helps you feel normal, the Fire Alarm metaphor shifts your relationship with stress and the 3C's teach us how to respond in order to minimize suffering and maximize happiness. Connect with us on any … Continue reading Why Is Change So Hard? Hand On The Stove Analogy

And through it all I matter

Before I even open my eyes I am aware of the warmth of my blankets and the sweet bundle of fur pressed against the back of my legs. I breathe in; the silence is comforting. I pry my fur baby from his chosen spot to mine and nestle in for some morning snuggles, enjoying his familiar … Continue reading And through it all I matter

Managing mixed feelings

We can learn a lot from children who feel safe, because they intuitively do what we seem biologically programmed to do in order to be well and thrive. Many of us feel guilty when something good happens for us in front of someone who has less. We take away our permission to be happy and … Continue reading Managing mixed feelings