Why am I surrounded by Jerks?!? Social currency

  "I am surrounded by people telling me I don't matter- they can't all be wrong!" We have talked in the past about the importance of Tribe and how the people we surround ourselves with can make us or break us, so to speak. (See The 5 Things We Need to Be Well- The STAMP … Continue reading Why am I surrounded by Jerks?!? Social currency

The best gift of the year- Boundaries

How do you feel when you do something you don't want to do? If you are like most people, we are quietly resentful, or sometimes outwardly rejecting or irritable. When it comes to relationships, going along just to keep the peace or because we are striving to meet other people's expectations is like slowly poisoning your … Continue reading The best gift of the year- Boundaries

Are you ready to be a jerk?

We were on holidays a couple of years ago at a resort in the Bahamas. We had saved to go, found a resort that accommodates 5 (easier said than done, most want you to book 2 rooms and have 1 adult stay in each room, and many don't even guarantee the rooms will be next … Continue reading Are you ready to be a jerk?