Babies cry when they want their needs met, and it doesn’t matter if they are physical needs, like when they are hungry and want to be fed, or if they are emotional needs, like they are feeling scared or just want a cuddle. We come out knowing we matter and that our needs matter. We aren’t afraid of asking for them or even acting out to get them met, like a toddler having a temper tantrum at the grocery store. Somewhere along the way though, we often unlearn that we matter and