• Ryan Wilson

Do you matter? Take the quiz


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Quick- how much do you think I value them? (Rate from 1-5, 1= not at all, 5= a lot)

Just based on that 1 sentence description about how I treat my sunglasses, you were able to get a sense of how important and valuable my sunglasses are to me.

Quick- how careful would you be with them if you found them after seeing me treat them that way?  (Rate from 1-5, 1= not careful at all, 5= very careful)

We use the same process to communicate TO OURSELVES and OTHERS how important we are.



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What are YOU communicating to yourself and others?

Answer the following questions using a 1-5 rating scale: 1 = not at all, 5 = almost all the time.

1. I take care of my physical health    (ie. get enough sleep, making time for exercise, eat healthy)

  1. 1            —           2            —            3           —             4              —              5

2. I  speak kindly TO myself and ABOUT myself to others

  1. 1            —           2            —            3           —             4              —              5

3. I accept and validate my feelings about things, and trust my gut when needed

  1. 1            —           2            —            3           —             4              —              5

4. I share my opinions about things

  1. 1            —           2            —            3           —             4              —              5

5. I ask for what I want and need in relationships and stand up for myself, even if it means a possible confrontation

  1. 1            —           2            —            3           —             4              —              5

So how are you treating yourself and how well are you teaching others to treat you? 

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In what areas did you do well? Pat yourself in the back for those.

In what ways do you want to improve? Consider setting a SMART goal about these and remember to take it as FEEDBACK vs EVALUATION.

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See you next week!

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#communication #relationships #Imatter #respect #selfcare

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