#relationships 2/2

Ryan Wilson

Oct 1, 2016
4 min

Love, Influence and Power

I was at a conference late this week and had the good fortune to speak about relationships and attachment with other clinicians. It was...

2 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Sep 17, 2016
3 min

Why am I messed up?

These questions come from just about everyone when we first meet, but especially when they haven’t had any “major traumas” in their...

2 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jul 29, 2016
5 min

Expectations?

Bosses give us job descriptions in part so we know what is expected of us. Ideally, clear expectations guide our choices and actions....

2 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jul 23, 2016
4 min

Are you ready to be a jerk?

I despise cold, so I was particularly looking forward to going in the dead of winter and we were really looking forward to the break. We...

0 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jul 2, 2016
3 min

Consent – more than for sex

We have a 12 yo, and we were just talking about consent with him and came across this great video that talks about consenting for...

0 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jun 25, 2016
3 min

How can I feel better?

by Photos8.com Good mental and physical health requires RESPECT, LOVE, COMPASSION, and BOUNDARIES. How you define these terms will differ...

1 view0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jun 18, 2016
1 min

Do you have good friends?

We usually learn to value ourselves from how valued we felt growing up. (See video about survival maps for more) It sets the stage for...

1 view0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jun 11, 2016
2 min

Do you matter? Take the quiz

Quick- how much do you think I value them? (Rate from 1-5, 1= not at all, 5= a lot) Just based on that 1 sentence description about how I...

0 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jun 4, 2016
3 min

Bring your baggage to work day!

This is true whether it is about work we are doing now, or work we did in the past and also true of paid or unpaid work. A few weeks ago...

1 view0 comments

Ryan Wilson

May 21, 2016
7 min

Work and Family

Have you ever wondered why it can be such a BIG issue? WORK (paid or not) provides us with: A sense of SAFETY (financial and physical),...

1 view0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Mar 5, 2016
4 min

What do YOU DO to feel SEEN?

How come something as basic as rejection, isolation and exclusion can be so powerful in controlling human behaviour? Because we evolved...

3 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Feb 13, 2016
5 min

Do we ever truly heal?

You decide… I was working with a young woman in her 40’s a while ago, Samantha. She was conceived around the time her mother had an...

1 view0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Jan 29, 2016
3 min

Can you change your relationship?

Have you ever had that kind of relationship with something? Someone? You really LOVE one part of them and DESPISE the other. Perhaps it...

0 views0 comments

Ryan Wilson

Dec 12, 2015
4 min

Kids, Family, Xmas & Presence

There is a constant pull between the magic in the air from being around kids who believe in Santa and the expectations of others to host,...

0 views0 comments

Sneaky Ways Our Past Hijacks Our Relationships

Ryan Wilson

Aug 22, 2015
5 min

Sneaky Ways Our Past Hijacks Our Relationships

The way it happens is always the same…so let’s look at some actual examples and what we can do about it! Isabella (not their real name)...

1 view0 comments